Exciting truth or dares?
Having a blast with truth or dare
(Photo from Jacrews7 via flickr)Question
Me and my guy friend are hanging out often, we are both 16 and I like him alot.
Last time he asked me if we could do something more...exciting. We did play truth or dare sometimes.
Do you have any ideas?Answer
Start asking him intimate dares. Like dare him to lick your ear. Or dare him to let you kiss his neck!
He will get excited, I promise.
If you need to go further, dare him to get blindfolded and go into a shower with you!
If its your turn, get dared to do a lapdance for him...!
Beware Of Negative People Who Will Destroy All Your Momentum When You Suggest A Party
Tonight, I was out meeting friends and having a good time. There were several of them which I haven't seen for quite a while. To catch up, I suggested having a party games night soon.
One of the girls was on her guard. She was playing Truth or Dare with us before, and she didn't like how we all ended up naked when we played "the Game".
So she started spewing around all that negative energy. Sarcastic comments on how we should just take off our clothes and then play a game and get it over with.
To be honest, I was feeling hurt. At the time we played "the game" (I mean Truth or Dare) everyone liked it, I dare say. It's easy to play the goody two shoes afterwards.
But there should not be any need to stop any enthousiasm in its steps, before there even is a game night. (Not even a party with drinks and all, just a friendly game night.)
Seems I went too far with the dares in the past. I already was notorious for that game.
How to best get out of there?
Keep a low profile. Even if I don't want to play Truth or Dare, don't even speak of it. Play other games, icebreakers, board games, watch a movie, all that stuff.
Ideally, ban the alcohol from the parties a few times. Get some trust back.
Playing a personal game like Truth or Dare needs lots of trust. Especially if you play it with close friends of yours.
Don't ever lose that trust.
Even if you feel like you do all the work, bringing the fun to the table and managing confort levels of everyone involved... That is the price you have to pay as a "dare master".
The payoff is huge though (did I mention we all ended up without clothes...?)
I was dared to do something I don’t want to do. How can I get out of this dare?
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The answer is simple, if you don't want to do a dare at any point of the game; you are not obliged to do it. You can always say: "I don't want to do this dare."
You don't have to get emotional about it and you don't need to discuss your reasons so much. If it's anything you don't feel comfortable with.
- Removing a piece of clothing.
- Showing your underwear.
- Exposing yourself in public.
- Kissing someone you don't like.
- Doing anything you don't like.
If you need to do anything which really goes against your believes please remember Truth or Dare is after all just a game. Games are supposed to be fun. You shouldn't feel bad or miserable after playing a game. If you don't want to get all emotional in a discussion while a game is on a good point, just call "Chicken"
Normally every Truth or Dare game has this rule that if you "chicken out", say "Chicken" or "play a Chicken card", you don't need to do the dare.
Perhaps your play mates will decide to give you a punishment which means you have to do another dare, or answer a truth instead or even skipped for a turn or something like that.
Whatever happens, don't do something you will regret later. Truth or Dare is a pretty tricky game, it plays with the mind of every player. That's probably why it's so popular right now and has ever been.
What Truth or Dare makes much use of is the principle of peer pressure. Peer pressure is when you feel compelled to do something because everyone wants you to do it. Truth or Dare is a perfect example of this.
Here is where I hope you are not either too drunk or not confident enough to say "No". when you are asked a truth question which really will lead to bad consequences when you answer a question truthfully, don't hesitate to lie even if they call you on it (because they know right answer or because they feel that you are lying)! You still can pretend you are not.
It's more important to protect your reputation and friendships than to obey the rules of Truth or Dare.
I know that in many articles on this website, you will find discussions which go to the opposite end of this post.
Generally the game is most fun when you really do the dares even it is slightly uncomfortable or embarrassing but I am not talking about going against your core beliefs. I am not talking about playing a game that will leave somebody seriously hurt. It also excludes any dares which will hurt anyone seriously.
You have to draw the line. You have to see where the limit of fun is and where pain begins. Please be reasonable when playing Truth or Dare.
If your friends don't accept you for not doing the dare and threaten you with bullying you, throwing you out of the game, never ever calling you again or something like that...
Perhaps you should reconsider who your friends are. Real friends take care of you and respect your feelings.
Perhaps Truth or Dare is also a game which does not only test your limits but the quality of your friends, too? Think about it.
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My girlfriend kissed other guys on the cheek at Truth or Dare and now I am mad!
Mad because of Truth or Dare...?
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Question: My girlfriend played Truth or Dare and kissed two other guys on the cheek. Am I right to be mad?
Answer by dare-up-your-site.com: You have the right to be mad, if you want. But you should not. To kiss others is the most classic and normal dare ever!
Perhaps you did not know. But if people don?t play Truth or Dare to embarrass the hell out of each other, then they most likely play it for some boy-girl interaction to happen. That is sort of a universal unwritten law of this game.
And, believe me, kisses on the cheeks are by far the most harmless thing which can happen!
Talk to your girlfriend and make it clear to her that this is disturbing you. If she apologizes, do accept it. Know that, honestly speaking, she does not really need to apologize to you. Unless you are very young or very prude ? kisses on the cheeks are no big deal.
In some countries (e.g. France), kisses on the cheeks count as normal greeting.
Think about it ? would you be happy if in the game another girl would have kissed you? Or would you be mad at yourself? Be honest here!
The same rules apply to your girlfriend and you.
You must choose: enjoy the game of Truth or Dare together with her or don?t participate in the first place, neither of you.
How To Get Over Your Fear Of Dares
by Ben, the daredevil
(Michigan, United States)
Hey guys, Ben the daredevil here.
I know this is a site for sharing stories, but Francis commented on one of my stories, and he said he wished he could teach people to be as daring as me and my friends... well, I'm here to help :)
First, answer the following:
- Are you scared of dares?
- Do you get scared to do dares in a game of truth or dare?
- Are you uncomfortable doing dares to begin with?
- Do you draw blanks when it comes to daring others?
- Do you make excuses to weasel out of times when you are dared?
Well, these are common things to feel. But I have many solutions.
Let's start with number 1.
The question is, are you scared of dares? Let me start by saying that I am TERRIFIED of dares, and that's what makes them so much fun.
You don't have to go extreme like I do. Start simple. Don't push yourself, or you will get really uncomfortable really fast. Work your way up.
Now number 2:
Do you get scared of being dared in Truth or Dare? Well, start with step 1. Work your way up.
It will make dares less scary and more fun. Plus, if it's truth or dare, I can promise you that you WON'T be the only one who gets DARED.
Sure you'll get laughed at, but then the next dare that comes up, people are too busy laughing at them, they'll forget all about your dare, and YOU'LL forget how embarrassing it was.
Now, número thr33:
Uncomfortable doing dares to begin with? Well, the first 2 steps help alot with that, but you can't be pushed.
Dare YOURSELF to do your own dares.
- If there's a nude scene in a movie, get naked. Spend the day like that.
- When you take your dog outside to go to the bathroom, YOU go to the bathroom, too.
Doing these two specifics plus more of the dares that I do will get you more comfortable doing nude dares.
Do you draw blanks when it comes to being the darER, not the darEE? Well, when you get a good idea for a dare, putting it in a note on your iPod or iPhone is helpful.
Just make a list. Keep track of all those dares.
And now, number fives.
Do you make excuses to get out of doing dares? Well, need I say anything?
Once you've mastered steps 1, 2, 3, and 4, you most likely won't be making excuses anymore. If you have any questions, email me!
Hope this helps!
Ben, the daredevil :)