Exciting truth or dares?

by Emily

(Photo from Jacrews7 via flickr)

Question
Me and my guy friend are hanging out often, we are both 16 and I like him alot.
Last time he asked me if we could do something more...exciting. We did play truth or dare sometimes.

Do you have any ideas?

Answer
Start asking him intimate dares. Like dare him to lick your ear. Or dare him to let you kiss his neck!
He will get excited, I promise.

If you need to go further, dare him to get blindfolded and go into a shower with you!
If its your turn, get dared to do a lapdance for him...!

Beware Of Negative People Who Will Destroy All Your Momentum When You Suggest A Party

Tonight, I was out meeting friends and having a good time. There were several of them which I haven't seen for quite a while. To catch up, I suggested having a party games night soon.

One of the girls was on her guard. She was playing Truth or Dare with us before, and she didn't like how we all ended up naked when we played "the Game".

So she started spewing around all that negative energy. Sarcastic comments on how we should just take off our clothes and then play a game and get it over with.

To be honest, I was feeling hurt. At the time we played "the game" (I mean Truth or Dare) everyone liked it, I dare say. It's easy to play the goody two shoes afterwards.

But there should not be any need to stop any enthousiasm in its steps, before there even is a game night. (Not even a party with drinks and all, just a friendly game night.)

Seems I went too far with the dares in the past. I already was notorious for that game.

How to best get out of there?

Keep a low profile. Even if I don't want to play Truth or Dare, don't even speak of it. Play other games, icebreakers, board games, watch a movie, all that stuff.

Ideally, ban the alcohol from the parties a few times. Get some trust back.

Playing a personal game like Truth or Dare needs lots of trust. Especially if you play it with close friends of yours.

Don't ever lose that trust.

Even if you feel like you do all the work, bringing the fun to the table and managing confort levels of everyone involved... That is the price you have to pay as a "dare master".

The payoff is huge though (did I mention we all ended up without clothes...?)

Your call.

I was dared to do something I don’t want to do. How can I get out of this dare?

by Cindy
(USA)

(Photo from Daniel Pettit)

My girlfriend kissed other guys on the cheek at Truth or Dare and now I am mad!

Photo from Kay Kim(김기웅)

We played some sexy truth or dare games and now I have hot dreams about my friend

by Steven

I had this weird dream of one of my closest friends and we were totally making out. This only happened since we have started playing truth or dare with each other. I have been dreaming about it more often in these past few days.

Am I a bad friend if I feel sexually attracted to my best friend and have been dreaming about it?
I’m really driving myself crazy with my dreams of my best friend and I find myself having sleepless nights after it. What should I do?

(Photo from Roberto Bouza via Flickr)

How To Get Over Your Fear Of Dares

by Ben, the daredevil
(Michigan, United States)

Hey guys, Ben the daredevil here.

I know this is a site for sharing stories, but Francis commented on one of my stories, and he said he wished he could teach people to be as daring as me and my friends... well, I'm here to help :)

First, answer the following:

1. Are you scared of dares?


2. Do you get scared to do dares in a game of truth or dare?


3. Are you uncomfortable doing dares to begin with?


4. Do you draw blanks when it comes to daring others?


5. Do you make excuses to weasel out of times when you are dared?

Well, these are common things to feel. But I have many solutions.

Let's start with number 1.

The question is, are you scared of dares? Let me start by saying that I am TERRIFIED of dares, and that's what makes them so much fun.

You don't have to go extreme like I do. Start simple. Don't push yourself, or you will get really uncomfortable really fast. Work your way up.

Now number 2:

Do you get scared of being dared in Truth or Dare? Well, start with step 1. Work your way up.

It will make dares less scary and more fun. Plus, if it's truth or dare, I can promise you that you WON'T be the only one who gets DARED.

Sure you'll get laughed at, but then the next dare that comes up, people are too busy laughing at them, they'll forget all about your dare, and YOU'LL forget how embarrassing it was.

Now, número thr33:

Uncomfortable doing dares to begin with? Well, the first 2 steps help alot with that, but you can't be pushed.

Dare YOURSELF to do your own dares.

• If there's a nude scene in a movie, get naked. Spend the day like that.



• When you take your dog outside to go to the bathroom, YOU go to the bathroom, too.

Doing these two specifics plus more of the dares that I do will get you more comfortable doing nude dares.

Number 4:

Do you draw blanks when it comes to being the darER, not the darEE? Well, when you get a good idea for a dare, putting it in a note on your iPod or iPhone is helpful.

Just make a list. Keep track of all those dares.

And now, number fives.

Do you make excuses to get out of doing dares? Well, need I say anything?

Once you've mastered steps 1, 2, 3, and 4, you most likely won't be making excuses anymore. If you have any questions, email me!

Hope this helps!

Ben, the daredevil :)

DoubleDogDareDevilDude@gmail.com